Hi Janice,
I have been referring some therapy clients to you whom I believe can benefit from a reading. I feel grateful for your gift. For the most part, my clients have felt peace and healing from the readings. Some have reconnected with loved ones who have passed on. Others have been able to finally let go of long-held self-defeating beliefs. Everyone seems to gain a better sense of their purpose and worth.
I am writing because I recently referred a client who is in an emotionally abusive marriage with limited supports and very low self-esteem. The reading did reaffirm what she already knew, which is that this man has a great potential for violence, given his history of threats, deceit, manipulation and controlling behavior. She had assumed her fear of her husband was the result of being "damaged" by the abuse in her early history and not something she could trust as being valid, especially because he had convinced her she was crazy at one time. Now she knows that the fear was healthy.
I know I should feel grateful for the message she received today because it reaffirmed the truth but it just feels so unnerving because there is this threat of danger. I admit I have not worked a lot with domestic violence but after I heard about her reading, I felt as if I had seen a ghost. Perhaps my own fear is not healthy. I just hope she was ready to hear the truth from the reading and do what she needs to do to keep her and her daughter safe.
If you can respond back, that would be great. I am not expecting specifics about my client but any feedback in general about the idea of therapists referring clients to you especially in cases of domestic violence. I feel as though I cannot share this with my colleagues. If you cannot respond, I understand and thanks again for sharing your gift. --RW.
Janice,
Thank you for helping us, we are so happy to hear that we continue to
receive guidance from those we love. My heart is warmed to know that our son
is still with us, I truly believe he came to me the day he died and gave me
a message, you confirmed it in a way and for that I am deeply grateful.
We are indeed at a cross roads, I am Active Duty in a job that would be
great for my particular talents but the people are (inherently) unkind and
that is enough for me to end my career. Josh is a stay at home dad and has
to deal with being the "spouse" a lot. (the military treats their "assets"
like lowlifes, a spouse is just a step below that) He is such a blessing to
me each day, a true gift and a wonderful father and husband.
You were right on about so many things, we have come to realize that change
is coming and we welcome it. The life we chose was not really what we were
intended to experience long term and now we can move forward. Thank you for
your encouraging words.
With gratitude and love,
Jeannine
TRY THIS EXERCISE >>>>
The Compassion (Peace) Exercise
From Avatar ® Section One
By
Star’s Edge International®
This exercise can be done anywhere that people congregate (airports, malls, parks,
beaches, etc.). It should be done on strangers unobtrusively... from some distance.
Try to do all five steps on the same person.
Step 1: With attention on the person, repeat to yourself —
‘Just like me, this person is seeking some happiness for his/her life.’
‘Just like me, this person is trying to avoid suffering in his/her life.’
Step 3: With attention on the person, repeat to yourself —
‘Just like me, this person has known sadness, loneliness and despair.’
Step 4: With attention on the person, repeat to yourself —
‘Just like me, this person is seeking to fulfill his/her needs.’
Step 5: With attention on the person, repeat to yourself —
‘Just like me, this person is learning about life.’